Hodgepodge

1. What's one piece of advice you would give to a recent or soon-to-be graduate? 

Never consider yourself to be finished learning. Receiving an advanced degree, even one with distinction, wonderful grades, etc is great but there is always more to learn. 

2. May 15th marks the birth date of L. Frank Baum, author of The Wonderful Wizard of Oz. At this point in time are you more in need of brains, courage, heart, or a trip back home? Explain. 

I'm more in need of courage. I have a lot to get done at school before the end of the school year. I want it to come to an end but I need to get everything done first. 

3.  "There's no place like home" is an oft repeated line from Baum's book. When was the last time you felt the truth of that statement? 

I can't recall the last time for sure that I felt the truth of that statement but it was likely the last time that I traveled. I'm always grateful to get away (assuming the place I'm going to is nice...) but I always love to come home. 

My mom sold the home that I grew up in when I was in my early twenties. While I understood why she sold it (the property was way too much for her to keep up with), I was definitely sad knowing I could never go to my childhood home again. I'm glad for now that we are in the home where our kids grew up. When they come home, they get to see us and the home that has many childhood memories for them. That's not a reason for us to stay here forever (we don't plan to!) but I'm glad they have that for now. 

4. May is National BBQ Month...do you own a grill? Who does the grilling at your house? What's your favorite thing to throw on the grill? What's the last thing you grilled? 

We finally have a grill! We went several years without one when our last gas grill went out and we were contemplating doing a deck or patio project. Donnie knew he wanted a built in grill if we did the patio so he didn't bother replacing the last gas grill that went out. 

Now that we have a grill, I try to never take it for granted! Nor do I take for granted Donnie's traditional view on men being the grillers. Works for me as there are no shortage of other dishes that need to be prepared for nice grilled meal.

We had a number of fun get togethers with friends and family last spring and summer with grilled meat being the piece d' resistance of the meal :).



A guy and his grill...

5. What's a memory you replay in your head when you need a little joy? 

I think of different memories of the kids from when they were young and had magnificent moments. Some of these moments included fun times on vacations, doing really well in a sporting event that they were really into, or just an amazing day or time of fun with a good friend. During their childhood they had no idea of the responsibilities that were ahead of them. Those bright moments were theirs to enjoy fully and those moments brought me joy as well.

Sometimes I think of something joyful from my own childhood- fun times with friends and family members who are here no longer. 

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

We are enjoying some beautiful spring weather. We had nice weather all weekend which was a true joy for Mother's Day and getting to spend a small amount of time outside enjoying it. (I think Saturday was really nice too but I was inside all afternoon cleaning!) Abby is home briefly and she and I just went for a walk. It was about 70 degrees and sunny and felt super warm. EEKS- I don't love the heat of the summer so I'm trying to enjoy feeling the warmth in the air, not the heat of summer, when I'm outside. 

Beautiful weather for a beautiful hike



Linking up with Joyce for the Hodgepodge

Comments

  1. Those photos are beautiful - what a gorgeous place!! Your outdoor kitchen is spectacular - I love it!

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    1. Thanks, Lisa! We are grateful for the outdoor kitchen :).

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  2. My husband is the griller too; most of the time anyway. But he always seems to forget that I was the one that taught him how to grill and he'll try to give me pointers. We debated about building a built in grill as well but we often move ours from the deck to the patio and back again... I guess we could have built in 2 of them! That sounds like perfect hiking weather. We are very, very col again this week but should warm up for next week.

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    1. That’s funny that you taught your husband how to grill! We never had a gas grill going up so I have literally never grilled.

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  3. That is so true, there is always more to learn!
    I am sure you will find the courage to get everything done and reach the end of the school year.
    I am always in awe when I see or read about people grilling, it is done so differently (in the best way) over in the US compared to here. Your grill looks so fancy!
    Send some of that nice weather this way, it's been mostly grey and chilly here all week.

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    1. I hope your weather turns soon, Kim! Where I grew up, most people didn’t have gas grill. People used charcoal bricks to grill over an open flame. .

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  4. Oh your weather looks and sounds wonderful. It has been mostly dreary here but we are gearing up for a nice weekend for prom and even better weather next week- finally! Love love love your grill and love how Donnie is commanding it- nothing like a guy and his grill :)

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    1. Yah for nice weather this weekend! Just in time… can’t wait to see pictures! I love how much Donnie loves his grill. It’s a win win for sure!

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  5. My hubs loves to grill too, as does one of my sons-in-law. When we're together the guys spend a lot of time discussing the cut of meat, the grill time, the temp, etc. It's cute : ) I agree with you about learning. I think maintaining curiosity in life keep us young. Enjoy having both of your girls in the house!

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    1. Thanks, Joyce! It’s great having everyone home! I can imagine the guys’ conversations about grilling :).

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  6. We are in the same boat with the grill - our last one died and we just haven't replaced it. I would have to the main griller and walk raw meat down some steps. Lol.
    I feel the same about learning. I learn something new every day and did so as a teacher, too. I told the students when I didn't know something and they also taught me things. I think staying curious is a really good trait.
    My kids are so attached to our house. They don't even like minor changes and want to know why we want to renovate certain things. They definitely don't like change.
    You have the courage! You've got this!

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    1. One of my kids complained when we got a new kitchen trash can so I feel ya! I hope I’m always curious!!

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    2. I’d rather jump into this comment, then leave my own, ha!
      Our kids convinced me two years ago that Tom “needed” a Traeger and so I helped them purchase one for Father’s Day. Truly one of the BEST gifts ever!!! Do it Amy!! You can learn to use it too. It uses wood chips, is temperature-controlled….we do bacon, burgers, all kinds of veggies (roast just like you would in the oven), and the absolute best ribs we’ve ever had. If you come down here we’ll host you for dinner :)
      Love your outdoor space Maria!!! It is absolutely the best.
      The part of these comments that is different from me? Although two people in this family don’t like change, I LOVE it and thrive on it. Maybe because I don’t have that childhood home/hometown that you both did? Anyway, fun to read your ladies’ posts this week!

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    3. I have never heard of a Traeger before. I should check that ou!

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  7. That waterfall is really pretty. Also, I looked at the jeans that I bought and they WERE Democracy brand!

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    1. Love it! I hope you like them! I’ve liked every pair that I’ve had…

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  8. That hike really was beautiful. The temperature/weather is all relative. I am savoring our last days in the 80's before the summer heat arrives. I feel the same way about thinking back on my kids' childhood and some of my own memories too. My mom sold the house I had gone to high school from when I was around the same age. She went to live with my grandmother and I had to take any childhood things I wanted with me back to college. Now that I look back, it was a hard transition. Praying for your courage and strength to finish the school year!

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    1. Thanks, Tanya! I can imagine that was a hard transition. I was older when I "lost" my childhood home and I regret not taking more things from the house, taking more pictures, etc. Heat is definitely relative! I hope your "mild" hot temps remain for a while!

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  9. Hi,
    I appreciate what you shared for #3.
    I am thankful my parents still have our family farm, but I do not know how long they will be able to keep up with it. I do not like to think about it, but someday I know changes will happen.
    I also liked what you said about your own family home. It is the same for us, the boys are able to come HOME. They are always happy to be home. :-) They like to go out in the yard and see the tree house, it is still here, I use it for storing some of my pots and garden fencing. Hee Hee!

    A guy and his grill!!! That made me smile too!!

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    1. You could turn their tree house into a she-shed! I love that you are using it productively and that your boys appreciate being able to "come home." I'm sure it's difficult to imagine a life without going home to the farm; I hope the transition won't be too hard and that you have many more years of having it :).

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  10. So you had all three home for Mother's Day?? That is a treat - as special as the lovely weather. Double hooray:) I think that is cool that you live in the house your children grew up in. Thinking of houses....I always dreamed of one day living in my grandmother's house. Sadly, that did not happen (and probably for the best) but the idea of a house with history (family history) is one that I love -

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    1. Thanks, Jennifer! No, Abby didn't arrive until Tuesday but it still seemed to be in the Mother's Day season so that was good :). We don't plan on staying in this house forever and so it will be a big change for all when we move (ideally one or more of the kids will be married and in their own place which means less of their stuff will be in our house when we move!).

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  11. I'm awaiting some beautiful weather here; been rainy for days. Which, again, we need but still. I told my middle child, who will be the only one knocking around the house most of the summer, that he and I are going to take a lot of walks!

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    1. You guys walk in the heat of the summer? It seems like it must super hot in the summer but good for you for doing that. (I was training for a marathon one summer that I had to be in Fort Lauderdale for a weekend with Abby for dance and I remember running and sweating so profusely I couldn't believe it!) I hope your weather turns soon!

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  12. I'm drooling over your outdoor grilling area with that seating bar. So cool!! I think a lot of us chose courage. We still live in the home our girls mostly grew up in...we moved when our youngest was 7 but we lived with someone for a few years while we built so she was about 9 when we moved into our home and our oldest was 11/12. I would love to stay here but who knows what the future holds.

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    1. Thanks, Kirsten! My husband designed the whole outdoor patio area. He did a great job! I'll bet the home building process was exciting. We "built" our home but it was not custom and it didn't take super long :). It's definitely "home" to the kids. We'll see how long we stay here. Our kids know we plan on moving at some point.

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  13. Your outdoor kitchen setup is wonderful!! I feel the same way about grilling being such a great way to share the meal prep tasks and (usually) reduce the dishes that need washed up afterwards.
    My parents sold the house I grew up in many years ago and it was kind of sad, but also I had moved away from my hometown so many years before that I guess I'd already separated from it. It did feel strange going to Mum and Dad's new place the first time though. Some of our kids are now living in the house that THEY grew up in, and it makes me happy that they wanted to do that - especially my daughter-in-law - that she had so quickly developed such an attachment to it.
    What a beautiful hiking spot! I'd love to try out those trails!
    Hope you're having a great week!

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    1. Thanks, Kym! That's so neat that your kids are living in the house that they grew up in. The area around here is really pretty- Greene County has some spectacular spots!

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