Hodgepodge and Currently

1. What's something you may do this month?

I *may* read: I definitely will, jump up and down when my sub gig is over. It MAY end before the school year. I can't/ won't get too excited about the possibility. If it does end early, it will just be a few days before the school year ends, but I will still sing a joyful song in my heart if not out loud.

Whenever my last day at school is, I plan on getting a 56 ounce pop in my Big Gulp and not worry one bit about the caffeine consumption!

2. Hola! Hodgepodge Day lands just after Cinco de Mayo... how do you feel about Mexican food? What's your favorite dish? Do you make it at home or is it a strictly dine out option? 

Well, sure I like Mexican food!! At restaurants I tend to order chimichangas just because I don't make those at home. At home, I make tacos, enchiladas, burritos and nachos. 

3. When the children of today grow up what do you think they'll say about this time period? What do you most hope they remember? 

This time period will likely seem ancient to them. So they will likely say things like, can you believe when I was child, almost everyone drove their own cars rather than having self driven cars?

I hope they remember a time before people being so reliant on AI. 

I love that my childhood was pre-Internet. I know as my generation gets older and older, when the kids hear about someone being so old that the person remembers life pre-internet, they will be astonished and feel badly for us "oldie goldies." When I was a child, I remember my mom telling me that when my grandma was a girl, electricity in households was not common at all and my grandma did not have electricity in the house she grew up in. It was inconceivable to think about living without electricity. My generation's "item we lived without that the younger generations will think is incredulous" is the internet. And for a generation younger than mine, the next thing will likely be kids not seeing how that generation grew up without AI.

4. What advice would you give a new mother? 

Home school if at all possible your children. Most teachers' hearts are in the right place, I firmly believe that, but not all teachers care about students' education. If you're familiar with the phrase "quiet quitting" with regard to employment, I believe, based on my observations in a school setting that some teachers are quiet quitting in their role as school teachers. 

Even if every teacher were 100% on his or her A game every school day, though, I still think home schooling is best. I know it's not feasible for everyone, but I think it's best. A day at school consists of SO MUCH WASTED TIME. I see this and experience it daily! Students taught at home could learn the same amount as what they do in a school day in hours less if the education was tailored to the student and just his or her siblings at home.

It isn't just about the time but the content of what students learn in public school. No, sorry, I don't think human beings evolved from a single cell organism. I believe that God created the heavens and the earth. I believe He created mankind and animals and plants, etc. I don't believe that earth is approximately give or take a few billion years old. I've had to "reschool" my kids and tell them when I disagree with what they've learned at school. 

Socialization is easy to achieve if the family is active in church, Scouts, club sports, local theater, etc. 

I wish I'd subbed before I had kids! I think for sure if I had, I would have done everything in my power to home school my kids. 

5. What's a phrase your mother often said to you? If you're a mom do you say it to your own children? 

My mom was first generation German. She learned to speak German as she learned to speak English so she was fluent in both. (Her parents stopped speaking German in the home when school teachers told my mom's parents that my mom's siblings were mixing German and English words). My mom rarely spoke German around us but she did say a few phrases in German that I use with my kids.

One single word is "shnell." It's an adjective and adverb meaning, fast, quick, rapidly.  It's also used as a verb, "hurry up" (mach schnell) but my mom shortened it and just said, "schnell" when she wanted my siblings or I to hurry. 

My mom would ask, "Was ist los?" meaning what's the matter. I would say this to my children as well. 

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

So many thoughts, so little time!! My random thought is that I'm also including the prompts from Currently:


Currently:

Currently prompts: Digging, weeding, enjoying, eating/drinking, shopping for

Digging- into the dirt! Have seeds, dirt, and new gardening tools to boot (a birthday present). I've started planting the seeds and plants that go into the ground after the threat of frost is gone. For our area, that's generally considered Mother's Day. While of course it isn't past Mother's Day- that's coming up soon and the forecast until then shows no frost so I think we're ok. 


Weeding- I've had to do some weeding in my garden areas but not too much so far. I feel like I'm "in the weeds" at school but that too shall pass.

Enjoying- All of my birthday goodies!! I was spoiled with three different birthday cakes and tons of birthday sweets. Golly, I think my loved ones thought I needed "sweetening up." (Or they just know I love sugar!!)




Eating/drinking- Lots of sweet things! Also some good pizza


Shopping for- Nothing at the moment or in the immediate future. Once May 22nd hits, I will look into buying decorative items for the patio. 


Linking up with Joyce for the Hodgepodge and Amy for Currently

Comments

  1. I loved reading those German phrases from you and your mom! I am thankful I was able to homeschool my girls for most of their school years. I am actually subbing today. I know you will be so ready for your Big Gulp drink in just a little over 2 weeks!! I am also thankful to grow up in a generation without the internet, but it would be hard to go back now without it. Hope it's a good day Maria!

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  2. It sounds like you are very happy about the sub job ending. It sounds like it has been a lot! You deserve all the pop!!
    I really hope self driven cars don't become a thing, they scare me. There is so much that can go wrong but I feel that way about AI too. I've seen The Terminator movies when the robots took over. lol
    At one point in my youngest girls life I was all set to home school her because of issues at school and then things happened like the lockdowns and everyone home schooled and we realised it was not going to be good for us.
    Yay to the new gardening tools and all of those seeds and yum to all the birthday goodies!

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    1. Thanks, Kim! I love my new gardening tools! Donnie keeps saying we need to rewatch Terminator and I say that I don’t want to because it would scare me too much with.AI! I never really considered homeschooling my kids but I really wished I had.

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  3. Thanks, Marilyn! How wonderful that you homeschooled your girls- what a blessing to you and to them that was I'm sure (even though at the time it was likely challenging for you, I imagine you look back on it and are so glad that you did it!). Agree about the internet. I'm grateful for it but I'm grateful I grew up without it :).

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  4. I am torn on the whole homeschooling thing but after following along with Joanne I can see the benefits for sure. I just feel strongly about kids learning social skills especially as they grow and enter the workforce. I also understand what you are seeing at school- I have observed the same here through my volunteer work and it is really disheartening. I guess there are positives and negatives to both sides like everything else. Also, I completely agree on the internet and AI. Anyway, can't wait to see the garden after all of your efforts!

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    1. Thanks, Holly! There are definitely benefits to both home schooling and traditional school. Being in a school setting as much as I am has really changed my perspective and not towards being in favor of public school, unfortunately.

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  5. Oh you know I just LOVE your advice for new moms! AMEN! LOL. Yep, most days we could complete all our schoolwork in just a couple of hours and my boys had so much time to play and run around and be kids.

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    1. I’m so happy for your boys and your family! I’m sure you’ve all been blessed by the decision to homeschool your boys :).

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  6. I hope it ends early! That will be a glorious day! I can see you with your sunroof open and your Big Gulp in its seatbelt!
    I disagree about homeschooling. I know there is wasted time in schools, but I still think that the benefits of a "good school" outweigh the negatives. Parents still need to be their kids' first and most important teachers and hopefully supplement the learning with trips, museum visits, library visits, etcetera. Kids get to learn routines and systems and experience diversity. I also think it can be positive to be in a class of other kids your age; I thrived off of the competition. Teachers are trained in how to teach, and a parent homeschool teacher usually does not have a Master's degree in a field of education. There are times when a short term homeschool might be necessary. I am also a big believer in the "specials" - art, choir, band, orchestra, world language, PE. It would be difficult to do all this on your own. In Joanne's situation, she is a certified teacher and had very valid reasons for homeschooling.
    I think the problem is more with our broken education system and the bureaucracy that keeps teachers from being able to teach.
    Steps off soap box.

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    1. Yes, I agree that our education system is broken and that’s one of the main reasons I’m in favor of homeschooling. We will have to agree to disagree on the what’s best for a child. I don’t think a teaching degree is necessary to educate a child. Perhaps I’ve seen too many videos from Libs of TT highlighting the crazy content that teachers film themselves saying and put on the internet. Some say the most horrible things about conservatives and those who disagree with them. Shudder. I KNOW the vast majority of teachers aren’t like that but some are. Our district put a female high school teacher on leave recently for TTs she made at the school disparaging men and straight people. So ugly (she is actually pretty on the outside but she is not a kind, inwardly pretty person).

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  7. I considered homeschooling. It wasn't as prevalent as it is now. I think Covid was eye opening to parents as they got a day to day look at what their kids were doing/not doing in school. My oldest has hers in a hybrid program so they're in a classroom two days and she homeschools the other three. It's a wonderful mix of things in a Christian environment and we are all so happy with this option. My youngest has applied to a Christian school for her soon to be 4-year old and we are praying he gets a slot there. I think if you haven't been in the public schools since your own school days you'd be surprised at how things are now. I love teachers (was one, have a daughter who was one) but they don't have a lot of say in how the day goes anymore. I definitely think most parents are capable of teaching their own children. There are a million resources now available thanks to the internet. Have a nice day Maria!

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    1. I agree so much! I think most people can educate their own children. So much has changed! My mom was a school teacher before she married my dad. I never really considered home school. I love the hybrid homes school/Christian model and think it sounds like the best of both worlds, honestly.

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  8. I could not have homeschooled but admire people who can!

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    1. I know I would have constantly questioned my abilities had I tried to home school!

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  9. I thought about homeschooling but my reasoning was always: I am a better parent when I get to spend time away from my kids. I know that sounds awful but so be it. I would probably have been too angry. Maybe now I would be good at it but not when I was younger. And yes, the AI thing will be a prevalent memory for today's kids but who knows; that could die out at some point.

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    1. I never really contemplating doing it thinking that I couldn’t do it since I wasn’t a certified teacher. Then I started subbing and realized that I definitely could have….

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  10. I don't think my kids or I would have done well with homeschooling so I'm thankful we live in an area of our state with excellent schools.

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    1. That is great about your area. Our district is also high ranked and it’s the one I sub in now. If our school is one of the best… yikes to the others! I know I would have struggled to think I was doing a good job if I had attempted it.

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  11. Reading your answer about what your mom said sparked a memory of something our mom did say. Great advice to young moms, I agree. I'm so thankful our Grands are being home schooled. My fingernails have been dirty this week. So many weeds, so little time and energy. Hope your end of year is good!

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    1. That is wonderful about your grandkids! I’m happy for them and their families :).

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  12. Hi Friend,
    We did homeschool our boys. They both thanked me after they left the nest.
    I loved your answer to #5!!! :-)
    Happy Gardening Days!!!
    xo

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    1. I don’t think I realized you homeschooled your boys! How wonderful!!

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  13. Enjoy the Big Gulp. I loved reading your thoughts today.

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  14. Hope you enjoy every single ounce of that Big Gulp to the fullest!
    I absolutely loved your advice for new moms and heartily agree. We homeschooled our kids all the way through and wouldn't have it any other way. In my opinion, home education should be the norm, and it is overall a healthier and more natural way for the family to function and it is just good for kids physically, socially, emotionally, and yes, intellectually.
    Goodness, all the birthday goodies look delicious!!
    Hope you're having a great week!

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    1. Thanks, Kim! I love that you homeschooled your kids. I will have to wait on the Big Gulp until my sub job is through because my favorite drink contains caffeine and I can't risk a good night's sleep due to having to get up in the morning to sub. But I will drink from it the day that school gets out!

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  15. So many sweet birthday treats!! Yay for subbing maybe ending early! I've been digging in the dirt, planting seeds and weeding too.

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    1. Fun, Heather! Can't wait to see what bounty and/or beauty springs forth from your soil :).

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  16. I loved hearing your thoughts on homeschooling. If I were doing it all over, I would choose the university model school that several church/private schools offer now. I don't think they were around as much when my kids are little, but I like the idea of 2 days of private school and 3 days of home instruction. I hope your subbing ends sooner than expected! I also enjoyed hearing about your mother's German phrases. I am fully 50% German, with my dad's side coming to the Pittsburgh area in the late 1800's. Happy Mother's Day!

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