Hodgepodge
Linking up with Joyce for the Hodgepodge
1. May 20th is World Bee Day...what's something that's kept you 'busy as a bee' lately?
We just had Abby's college graduation ceremony and family get together to celebrate that milestone. Even though it wasn't a large party, a number of details meant that a decent bit of time in thought and then actual doing was necessary.
2. Do you like honey? What's something you make or enjoy that calls for honey?
I like honey quite a bit. I make cashew chicken that calls for honey as the sweetener. This is one of Donnie's favorite meals and so I make it regularly :).
3. "Gracious words are like a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul and health to the body." Proverbs 16:24
What's a proverb you love, or one that speaks to you or has helped you in some way?
The Bible is full of Proverbs, a whole book in fact, if that helps with your answer. The word proverb is defined as 'a short pithy saying in general use, stating a general truth or piece of advice'.
"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not rely on your own understanding." Proverbs 3:5
The Bible is clear that the Lord's ways are not the ways of the world and that the Lord uses ordinary people to accomplish his work. The "world" says to gain as much as influence, power, money, fame as you can. But the Bible says to trust in the Lord. To be faithful to him, generous to others, humble in spirit, truthful, obedient to God's word- that is what's important.
4. Tell us about a 'sweet' moment in your life recently that filled you with joy, gratitude, or peace.
We've had a lot more time together as a family of five recently and that has filled me with joy and gratitude. I don't know about the peace part, lol. Mama does more work, which I don't mind (too much), when everyone is around!!
5. When you were a child, what did you want to 'be' when you grew up? How close did you come to that?
I wanted to a be a teacher at some point early in my childhood but that didn't last long. I think I knew from my teenage years on that I did not have that skill set or desire to teach as a career. I decided, based on my interest in politics and enjoyment of "sharing" my opinionated views, that I could see myself being a lawyer. I went to law school and passed the bars of two states but I never ended up in a career that used my legal degree and my interest in arguing 😏
6. Insert your own random thought here.
I'm not a lawyer but my husband is. He works in downtown Dayton- in the same firm (it's gone through a slight name change by legal necessity) in the same building since we graduated from law school back in 1999. Much has changed in the legal world since we went to law school- even though the internet was a thing that was already shaping the world into the way that it resembles more of today, some of the old traditions had not gone away entirely. After all, high speed internet was not all that common back then. When we were in law school, we learned how to do legal research two ways- using text books- the way it had been done since the practice of law began in ye whatever year- and by computer. (I would be curious to know what year law schools began abandoning teaching text book legal research!) Anyway, all that to say, Donnie has been working hard at law since 1999 and has seen many changes to his practice, to downtown Dayton, to his position within the firm (he was recently elected president of the firm- so proud of him!).
Today marks yet another change- Dayton is hosting a NATO summit. Thirty years ago, the Dayton Peace Accords were signed at nearby Wright Patterson Air Force Base which ended the Bosnian War. So, to commemorate that, Dayton was chosen to host the NATO Spring Session. Part of downtown Dayton is in a security zone. Donnie's firm is in that area and he would have to get special clearance just to park in his garage. He didn't want to deal with that (not to mention road closures and other driving inconveniences) so he's working from home the rest of the week. He is not a big WFH-er even though with technology, he certainly could do it more often than he does. He thinks there's something to be said for going into the office and actually seeing people, especially office staff. That said, he will work from home occasionally. He's never chosen to work from home for a NATO summit before since that event has never impacted his work before!

Good morning. Wow! What an interesting event in your hubby’s world. I had no idea about the summit. It kind of makes the world so much smaller - knowing that such a momentous event is happening in a seemingly small town (I obviously don’t much about Dayton).
ReplyDeleteGood morning! I would not have known about it except that it impacts my husband :). I know so little about events happening outside my region (unless it's a huge event that's covered by every news outlet).
DeleteHow cool about the NATO summit! Enjoy having him work from home, but Tom is the same. He can't focus as well at home.
ReplyDeleteYou have been quite busy with important life things!
Thanks, Amy! Yes, lots going on and all three of the kids are home right now (topic for another blog post!) so they are keeping me on my toes! You have so much going on yourself, girl. I can imagine how much you are looking forward to relaxing summer days.
DeleteThe cashew chicken dish sounds delicious. I use honey a lot in recipes which need a bit of sweetening.
ReplyDeleteFamily time is so precious! It is so lovely to have lots of time together.
How interesting to read about the changes in the legal world. It sounds like Donnie has made the right choice about working from home.
Thanks, Kim! Yes, I think for sure he's made the right decision! I will have to post the link again to the cashew chicken- it's really good and pretty easy to boot!
DeleteI loved reading your answers and certainly didn't know that about the NATO Summit in Dayton. Enjoy your family time!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Marilyn! I wouldn't have known except it directly impacts us :).
DeleteThat's exactly how my husband feels about WFH. He went into the office every day during Covid, even in the beginning. Staff worked from home (if they wanted to) and several of the older attorneys were concerned with Covid fears so they worked from home. But someone needed to be at the office if just to get mail and ensure the place was being cleaned, secure, etc. and my husband was fine being the one who went in every day. It is great to not HAVE to go in every day and now my husband takes advantage of it every once in a while. How fun that both your girls are at your place with their kids. Write about it when you get a chance :). I'm sure you're super busy right now.
ReplyDeleteI love sweet family time!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Dara! It really is the best!
DeleteHi, thank you for sharing about your husbands work, that was very interesting to read... and I learned something. :-)
ReplyDeleteThanks, Carla!
DeleteOh your honey chicken sounds delish! Also that proverb is everything and such a great reminder :)
ReplyDeleteThanks, Holly! I loved the prompt because answering it required me to look up some Proverbs and that was enjoyable.
DeleteI definitely thinking hosting a large(ish) family event always makes me feel busy; mostly with the cooking and cleaning side of things. It was neat to hear about the NATO summit.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Joanne! You do quite a bit of hosting as well- it definitely takes time. Even simple, not hugely attended events end up being time consuming.
DeleteExcellent choice to work from home with all that hullabaloo happening right where he works. Parties are a lot of work but it is so nice to have a nice event to honor your daughter's accomplishment. I enjoyed your answers and what you said in the Proverbs question. Hope the family joy continues!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Ellen! We have quite a bit of family time upcoming which will hopefully be great :).
DeleteMy husband also prefers to go into the office, although it still isn't the same after covid. They are only required to go in 3 days a week, so it never feels like everyone is there. I know you must be so happy to have all the family time!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Tanya! It has been nice so far, lol. How interesting that staff only has to go in three days a week- I'm assuming there's some consistent schedule for everyone? Seems like five days a week makes the most sense and then when circumstances arise for an individual needing to WFH every once in a while, that would be allowed.
DeleteWhat a fun and thoughtful read — congrats to Abby on her graduation! 🎓 That alone is a big milestone and definitely a “busy bee” kind of moment. I loved your take on Proverbs 3:5 — such timeless truth in trusting God over worldly logic. And wow, cashew chicken with honey sounds amazing (and like something my family would love too!). Your random thought really caught my attention — how cool (and a bit wild) that a NATO summit is happening right in Dayton! I totally get Donnie choosing to work from home for that. Also, big congrats to him on becoming firm president — what an accomplishment! It’s inspiring to see someone stay so dedicated through all the change. 👏
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DeleteEnjoyed reading all your answers today, especially about what your youth and childhood career hopes were and how it all turned out. I remember times when I thought I should go back to college and study political science or law, and then do political journalism or commentary. LOL Pretty interesting experience for your hubby at work - I had no idea there was a NATO conference so near us! Hope you're having a great week!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Kym! I would not count out going to back to college for anything- perhaps the Lord will open those doors for you and really prompt you to do it. People have begun amazing things during all stages of their lives!
DeleteThose were some interesting answers. Hard to believe all the learning, hard work and commitment to passing not one but two bars...and no formal arguing for you:) And how interesting Donnie's career seems. You both seem to be living your dreams. Congrats (not many can say that)!
ReplyDeleteRight? About the arguing? The closest I come to that is sharing some of my (apparently!) controversial takes on some issues online and some letting me know they disagree with me. (Which is all fine and good with me as long as the discourse is polite and stays on topic!)
DeleteI'm DETERMINED to catch up on reading today!! It's been such a busy few weeks - no time to record anything and really, not much time to read blogs either. And, if I'm reading them, many (like yours) I can't comment on from my iPad - no matter how many times we mess with the settings, I can't figure it out. Oh well. . .know that I'm here "lurking" although, with you and your content, I almost always have something to say!!
ReplyDeleteThis was a good HodgePodge - I've read many others too. You HAVE had a lot of "sweet" moments lately - how fun for you! All my kiddos were together last week with us and I think it might be the only time this summer that will happen??? A different season for sure.
Congrats on Dayton having that privilege - that's a big deal!! All the WFH thoughts you had here - we are so much alike! My husband and his group went in every day too, once the company found a contract on the books that "allowed" them to work :/. Such craziness. I have to say, I like the flexibility of choosing when I go into work (since I'm no longer on a school schedule) but wish so very much more people did come in. My people-loving heart will probably never adjust to this way of life.
What kind of law did you think you wanted to practice if you would have gone that route? I have a friend who passed the bar last summer and another friend's kid who did (graduated from UD!) last summer too. They BOTH chose to work as public defenders! It's been interesting to hear why they made those choices and opened my eyes to a different perspective.
I'll continue to be MIA for the next several weeks - BIG travel plans on the books - will read when I can though!
Great to hear from you Jenni and I look forward to reading about your plans when you write about them- safe travels!! Regarding the type of law that I wanted to try, I wasn't 100% sure what I wanted to do but I thought I'd consider working as a prosecuting attorney. I took a year off between college and law school and worked as a paralegal in a prosecutor's office in Indiana during that time. I could see myself becoming a prosecutor. Interestingly, being an attorney in a prosecutor's office does not necessarily mean one would be prosecuting charged offenders. There are civil type responsibilities that some attorneys in prosecuting offices do. For instance, our public library has an attorney to consult with for any and all legal matters and she's a prosecutor.
DeleteI would find the reasons someone wanted to be a public defender very interesting as well- PD's are needed, that's for sure. I could not imagine doing it but it's good that some are want to do at and are willing to do it.
I love these posts! So fun to celebrate a graduation! My daughter is graduating next week and we will have some family in town so I have been trying to get ready. I still have to meal plan and get our carpets cleaned. Your cashew chicken sounds so good! Thanks for sharing!!!
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed your answers. I'm late again getting around to commenting. Congrats to the college grad. That cashew chicken sounds really good and the Nato summit sounds interesting. I'm heading to Ohio in a few weeks to visit family
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