Hodgepodge

Linking up with Joyce  for the Hodgepodge



1. Spring has officially sprung (in the northern hemisphere anyway)...did she roll in more like a lion or more like a lamb in your neck of the woods? What needs more of your attention in terms of a good spring clean this year-your house or your garden/yard? 

The first day of spring here was cold and icky weather wise. That's not uncommon and par for the course for weather in the spring where any given day can be beautiful and warm or cold and gray. 

For sure the garden/yard! The patio project messed up the back and side yard. The landscaper for the project has reseeded all of the areas of the yard where the grass was torn asunder by machinery. The landscaper also added mulch beds near the entrance of the patio; Donnie and I have to decide on what plants/shrubs we want the landscapers to plant as well as any plants (probably flowers) that we plant ourselves. 



I also have a new vegetable garden spot as well as my old one.  The reason I have a new spot is because my old one is now too much in the shade (due to a wall that's part of the patio casting shadows on the ground behind the wall). I have been tracking how much sunlight hits the old garden spot and when and where. I want to use the old garden space where I can- none of it is in full sun anymore so I have been reading/researching what vegetable plants can tolerate some shade. 

The wall in this picture (and of course the ceiling as well) did not exist last year at this time. My old garden space is directly behind the wall. When the wall didn't exist, there was nothing to cause a shadow on the space. Now there is! Aww, I miss my OG garden space but I'm happy I have a new one. 



2. What's put a spring in your step lately? 

Knowing that the college school year is almost over is putting a spring in my step. I think that Donnie and I adjusted pretty well to quasi empty nesting (are you truly an empty nester when most things your kids own are still in their childhood bedroom? And you haven't converted their bedroom to a guest bedroom/craft room because your child comes home for regular intervals like breaks from school?) but I am more than ready to trade our fairly predictable but perfectly enjoyable evenings for the hububb of kids. Abby graduates college in May but will likely move back home until she (likely) moves elsewhere when the new academic school year starts. Alyssa will be home this summer for sure. 

3. When you were a kid, what was the best snack to find in your lunchbox? If you didn't do the lunchbox thing, tell us what was your favorite after school snack. 

Free lunch kid here (thankee taxpayers!) so I ate what the lunch ladies served. 

Not every day, but some days, my siblings and I would come home to the smell of homemade chocolate chip cookies. Just the best feeling- schools out and something yummy is in the kitchen.

4. In what area of your life are you planting seeds ? 

I am literally planting seeds (indoors of course since it's too cold to plant outside) this week.



Figuratively, I would say in consistently reminding the kids via text message and when I talk to them on the phone and in person about what is really important in life. It isn't what this world has to offer!  Rather it's faith and a steadfast belief in God and a reliance on him. I need the reminder myself!

5. Why do you live where you do? Would you consider living somewhere else? Why or why not? 

The condensed version is that here is where we both found jobs after law school. We'd seriously considered moving somewhere different/ more interesting (ie not the midwest- we were thinking South Carolina) but we had a hard time finding jobs when we didn't live there and we found jobs here... so we stayed here. Donnie is from the area (we met at the University of Dayton law school) and he has family here so it made sense to stay here, especially when job offers came in. And heaven knows student loan payments started very soon after graduation and so we didn't have the luxury to tarry with regard to finding a job.

I would definitely consider living somewhere else. Somewhere closer to the ocean, somewhere with a more moderate temperature, somewhere closer to the kids if they all move away, etc. I like where we live- it's good for now and I'm not pining to leave. However, I'm also not beholden to it for the long haul. 

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

The blogosphere for the win- specifically with regard to yesterday's dinner. Amy mentioned fish tacos in a recent post along with a link to a fish taco recipe. I decided to try the recipe. I don't cook seafood much at all. Neither Donnie nor I grew up in households that ate a lot of seafood. When we began coming up with our dinner repertoire in the early days of our marriage, it isn't too surprising that fish didn't make the cut. 

But Alyssa started ordering fish tacos when we'd  be on vacation near the ocean and she loved them so it's been on my mind to try them. Yesterday seemed like as good a day as any to try them so I did! Of course I had to go to the store to get the fish. I got tilapia and it was the first time I'd ever ordered seafood from the fish counter at Kroger! The recipe also called for a mango salsa and wouldn't you know that when I walked into Kroger, there was  a display of mangoes and avocados and both were on sale (the salsa calls for an avocado as well as a mango- I don't like avocados so I just left them out of mine). It seemed almost serendipitous (to the extent serendipity can ever be applied to a subject as banal as salsa...)! The tilapia was on sale, too! Fish tacos were definitely meant to be and the best news is that Donnie and I both really liked them!

I sent pictures of our tacos to Alyssa. She was getting initiated into her sorority that evening so she had bigger fish to fry (I couldn't resist that pun!) than being concerned with what we had for dinner. But she still humored me because she is a good sport.

The recipe can be found here.

Comments

  1. Wow! Yours look good and now I am super jealous! Thanks for the shoutout. I hope Alyssa likes them, too.
    I bet you are so excited to have four at home for the summer. I bet the girls love being together, too. It brings such energy!

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    1. Thanks, Amy! Yes, joy for sure. It won't be perfect but it will be louder and there will be more going on. I can't remember if you said you made the tacos or not but definitely try them if you haven't!

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  2. Ok your tacos look amazing! Can't wait to see how your garden turns out- you are inspiring me to look for some more sunny locations in are yard- will keep you posted and may just be coming right back to you for some advice!

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    1. I'd like to help in any way that I can! I hope you find a spot. Your backyard is wooded if I remember correctly- you might have more critter issues but that doesn't mean that you shouldn't try if you want to garden :).

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  3. I struggle with vegetable gardening here as the heat and humidity are such a battle in terms or keeping things properly hydrated. How fun to have both girls home this summer! Your tacos look delicious. I haven't made them at home, but do order out pretty often. I will check out her recipe. Have a great day!

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    1. Thanks, Joyce, you too! The tacos were so easy and cooked quickly. I was just thinking that this would have been a great meal when the kids were younger and time was tighter. (Though quick to make meals are always good to me!)

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  4. How nice to have a new space! I haven't made fish tacos, but have ordered them at a restaurant here and they were delcious. Enjoy your day!

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    1. Thanks, Marilyn- this rainy, cold weather is making us twitchy- we can't wait to enjoy it more. Of course warm times are ahead and we need to be patient (something I am not!)...

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  5. I hope you get some nicer weather soon. Good luck with getting your garden sorted.
    My youngest has about 3 more months until the end of her college year but things are already starting to wind down and exam season will start soon. Eek.
    It sounds like the fish tacos went down really well. They look so good!

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    1. Three more months? That is interesting! My youngest will be done with her school year in April. My niece in Canada will also be done in April and she started in September (seems like a very short school year!).

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  6. I love fish tacos but hardly ever make them; my family is not big on that. I try to remind my kids of that stuff too: what is important. And man, do I ever need that reminder on a daily basis! Your post actually made me feel a little better, actually.

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    1. Well, sure, if your kids don't like them then I could see not making them much. I don't know if my son would like them or not (that's how little fish we've had over the years- I don't even know what he likes except I know he doesn't like fish sticks, lol).

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  7. Love your outdoor space with the fireplace and TV! You have you work cut out for you with your garden and yard work, but you have a good start and it looks like it will be beautiful!

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    1. Thanks, Jim! We hope it turns out great. We are impatiently waiting for the weather to cooperate to enjoy the space more!

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  8. I love fish tacos, I am coming on over. :-)
    I am planting more seeds today and tomorrow. :-)
    And have fun with the girls coming home for the summer. Both our boys are out of the house, but they are only an hour away. YAY!! My first years of empty nest was not easy for me at all. I cried.

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    1. Aww, that's so sad. I cried the day we dropped our youngest off and then I didn't cry again until I got our fall decorations out. She loved to help me decorate. It was one of the first special occasion type events that she wasn't with me and it made me sad! My older daughter's college is only about an hour away from our house and my son lives about an hour. So it's nice that everyone is close to us and we can see them pretty frequently. I'm glad that your boys don't live too far away from you. It makes a big difference, I think, to at least be geographically close.

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  9. Your tacos look incredible! We are still having some pretty icky weather so no garden/yard work just yet but I did take a walk around this weekend to see if anything was starting to push through the ground yet.

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    1. That stinks about your weather! Ours is hit or miss but honestly mostly misses lately. It's hard to be patient but that warm weather will come! I just planted some pea seeds- they can withstand a light frost which will likely still get.

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  10. The tacos look so good! I also didn't grow up eating fish at home, and now don't cook it very often. Even though I love to eat fish! That will be so nice to have both girls home for the summer. Grace was home last summer, and I really savored it knowing it was probably the last time. We still have both kids' rooms set up (with scaled back things since they took a lot with them.) I'm not sure when I'll make a transition to a guest room!

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    1. I've been thinking the same thing about Abby's room. For one thing, she has so much more stuff than Jacob did and I can't imagine clearing her stuff out. I guess I'll justify keeping her room the same since we do have one guest room already and we don't really need an extra room. I need to remember that with Abby and really savor the time with her. I know that it will go SO FAST :(.

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  11. I didn't grow up with fish on the menu so it's been hard to incorporate it into our life. Fish tacos are a good way to start. Hooray for the family being under the same roof again. Congrats to daughter who is graduating! Those are the best kind of seeds to plant for your girls! Happy Spring to you.

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    1. Thanks, Ellen, to you too! I couldn't believe how quickly the fish cooked (though I guess I should have since the fillets were small) and how easy it was. I wish I had made these years ago!

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  12. That patio project seems amazing! I can only imagine how much use and enjoyment you guys are going to get out there. And hello to a second veggie patch! The possibilities are endless! Thinking about it, I do not ever remember my mom cooking/serving fish. We would eat fish (fried flounder) at restaurants but did my mom fix fish?? Hmmm -

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    1. I remember very occasionally my mom would pan fry some kind of fish- catfish maybe? I didn't care for it much and when Donnie told me he wasn't crazy about fish, eating it at home was an easy no! But our tastes have both changed apparently. Assuming my garden(s) bears any fruit/veggies, you know that there will be pictures and updates!!

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  13. Good luck with your garden, I'm sure it will look amazing once the landscaping is done. I can't wait to see what veggies you grow.
    I would move to the coast in a heartbeat, how lovely would it be to visit the ocean every day.
    The fish tacos look tasty, I often see recipes on the blogs I read and I really should make more of an effort to try them.
    Have a lovely rest of the week.

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    1. Thanks, Angela! The fish cooked so quickly and tasted really good- I would encourage you to try any recipe that looks good :). Thanks about the garden. I sure hope it turns out!

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  14. Oh my. I'm so late in commenting. Yikes..I need to get better. Can't wait to see how your landscaping turns out. .I love fish tacos. I love seafood. Lol. Those sound good. I enjoyed your answers.

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